When I realize how quickly this semester went by, I realize how much one semester here just wouldn't be enough! There is so much here that I just haven't seen or done yet! And I am really sad to see some of my friends leaving at the end of this semester! I am learning a lot but I need more time to use what I have been learning in order to keep up with it.
With Christmas coming up, I am a little sad that I won't get to see my family but I think I will somehow survive. Christmas in Japan is a little different than what it is back in the States. Actually it's extremely different. They all eat cake and go to KFC and get a bucket of chicken and then spend it with their Boyfriend or Girlfriend. They have the image of Santa but I am not sure they actual know about him. It's not really about giving gifts and Family too much during Christmas. I don't actually have any plans for Christmas. Tiki is working so maybe I'll probably hang out with him afterwards. But besides that I am not too sure what is going on. I hope to catch my family on Skype and watch them open presents up.
I am really excited to spend New Years here. I'm going to Kae's mom's house with Jessica and we are going to have probably a NABE PARTY!!!! I love nabe! So I'm excited for that!
Next semester two of my friends and I are looking into getting a house. Tiki, Heather and I are going to go check it out on Monday. It's 400 dollars a month split between 3 people... It's probably an older house but it would save me so much money! Living in the dorms is like 1700 dollars for the semester so I'm pretty happy with not paying that much next semester. I hope to get the house sometime before my birthday...
Now I am just trying to get ready for finals and all of that... Oh goodness... I hate this time of year!
Sorry I haven't written in a while. I have been a little tied down with school work and little adventures... I really am enjoying my time here in Japan. I have met a lot of interesting, and cool people here from all over the world! I'm sorry I have not taken the time to write down all of the things that I have been up to lately. But the words I write do not give any justice to the actual experience.
Not all experiences are amazing. I didn't expect that when I got here. My listening skills are slowly getting better than my speaking skills and sometimes I still feel like I cannot speak Japanese. Usually when I am not talking to one of my friends and I am talking to a clerk at a store they stare a me as if I am not speaking Japanese at all. Things like that are extremely discouraging but I try not to let them bother me. I still get the strange looks everywhere I go, especially from the older people... I occasionally get dirty looks from girls around my age. But I think thats because they are jealous that I can be skinny but still have curves and don't feel like I need a pound of make-up to make me look pretty. I guess the only culture shock that I have kind of experienced is the staring. I mean I was stared at in America on occasion but not so intensely as I have been here. I mean it's not like they have never seen a foreigner before. Half of their media are people from America. Cameron Diaz is in a commercial for Softbank the phone company I have. Jamie Lee Jones is the face of Boss coffee! They LOVE Tom Cruise here (?)! But I still get the OMG what are you stares from children. Sometimes they are cute and smile at me and then other times they gape at me. But I like to think that everyone stares at me because they think I'm pretty... I can dream!
Classes are ok. I like my classes I find them interesting but that doesn't mean I want to be there all of the time. In my speaking class we are writing a skit that we have to video tape. It sounds cool but it's time consuming and I have other time consuming things that I have to do that I would rather not do... I have two papers that are due at the end of the semester. I have yet to start one and the other one I have less than to pages left on it!!!! YAY!
Today is Thanksgiving! And I have no turkey... *sigh* I do miss turkey a lot! I haven't had turkey since I left! But I have found a new love for shrimp. I liked shrimp before but now I LOVE it! Fried shrimp is probably my favorite thing here. I have had rice EVERYDAY since I have been here. Except for one day and I was totally surprised when I realized it. I love going to 7-11 or Lawson to get my onigiri, which is a rice ball with something in the middle wrapped with seaweed! The tuna one is my favorite, or the seaweed with seaweed in it... that one is delicious too!
One thing I have a hard thing understanding is that the colder it seem to get outside the less clothes that the Japanese girls seem to wear... it baffles me! Today alone I saw 3 different butt cheeks from girls! Their skirts are so short! And I don't even think it's because they are trashy or slutty or whatever, they just wear skimpy clothes. They all wear ridiculous heals or boots with heals. The heals are not very stable and some of them end up walking bow-legged. Some of them are very vain! I saw one girl curling her hair in the cafeteria! I think that was a little too much! They all dye their hair light brown or they try to get it as blond as possible, and I'm pretty sure they wouldn't even recognize themselves without make up on. Which is very sad because they are all gorgeous or extremely cute girls. It makes me sad that they think that they have to try so hard to get attention...
I'm sure most of you probably guessed that I would get a boyfriend while I was here and I guess those who did won't be surprised when I say that I do have a boyfriend. His name is Tomohisa Toda but his nickname is Tiki. His English is pretty amazing considering he never studied abroad. He is really cool, funny, smart sweet, nice, and so much fun to hang with. He helps me study too so it makes it that much nicer to have a boyfriend here.
I hope everyone has a great holiday!!!! Take care! I love you all!
Sorry it has taken me so long to write in my blog again! I have been a little busy! I did end up going shopping last weekend! I got an awesome shirt that is has English on it but makes almost no sense! I cannot wait to wear it! "Girl loves the heart. Feature of girls heart. You should be so lucky! Waiting for you. Take delight in your heart in 1987. I give you some love... It is nostalgic. Finding shining heart." It makes no sense at all! I'm pretty excited! It's long sleeved though so I want to wait until it gets colder out. I also got that baby mickey that I wanted! It is the epitome of cute! After shopping i went to Karaoke with some of the other people in my seminar house. The karaoke place was pretty awesome! We got a pretty big room and all you could drink! I sang like 3 songs with the Japanese girls that met us there! They were pretty excited that I knew some pretty awesome Japanese songs!
The rest of the week was just class and frisbee and hanging out with Tiki and Justin. On Wednesday I went to block Shouhei from catching the frisbee and we both jumped up into each other except I jumped into his back and I fell on my back and got the wind knocked out of me. It was worth it because he didn't catch the frisbee so the other team didn't score! Yay me! But I think it might have jarred my neck a bit because it hurts to move it. I played frisbee a lot this week because the weather has been so gorgeous! It's still nice and warm out and I couldn't be happier about it! I am in no hurry for the cold to start making its way over!
Today I am going to meet Jessica at the train station!!!!!!!!! I thought that I was gonna have to go by myself but luckily, because it's a 3 day weekend, my friend Yasu is going to the same train station so he can go home to Kyushuu. If not then I would have to get off one train and make my way to the subway and get on the subway to where ever Jess is! I had directions but I'm glad that I have someone with me that actually knows where he's going. And then from the train station Kae is going to pick us up after he class! This weekend is going to rock! I haven't seen Kae since I want to Kyoto with her and I haven't seen Jess since August the 16th! That is like a life time! Well Jess hasn't seen Kae since the end of May so I guess that is longer... Anyways I am really looking forward to this 3 day weekend! I have midterms in 2 weeks and I am not too thrilled about that...
The past couple of days haven't been too eventful. I have mostly just been going to school like a good girl. I did finally get my Gaijin (foreigner) card! So no I am a legal Gaijin! YAY! I played frisbee the past 3 days in a row. And I am not sure, but I think I pulled a muscle in my foot? Maybe? The outside of my foot hurts when I walk but not when I ride my bike. And because I am walking differently from that pulled muscle, I pulled a different muscle in my leg... Awesome, right? I still somehow manage to ignore it and play frisbee. Yesterday this one dude and I jumped for the frisbee at the same time and he landed on my foot (the one that hurts) and my toe ring cut into my toe. So that started to bleed. It was pretty awesome! It didn't hurt but it sure did bleed a lot. I was carried to a faucet and I washed it off and put a band aid on it and continued to play. All is good! That night (Friday) I was supposed to go to karaoke but like last weekend plans changed!!!!!!! >< But it's whatever because next week Jessica is coming down and we are going to party, dance, and sing all weekend!!!! YAY!!!!! Well anyways that night Justin and I hung out at Tiki's place and we watched movies. We watched the sequel to a movie we watched earlier in the week and another movie with Shibasaki Kou in it! They both had horribly depressing endings and I was tired and whined and cried about how Japan hates happy endings. It's ok though because I'm going shopping today and everyone (or maybe every female) knows the healing power of shopping. I have to go buy a new toe ring... my right foot is now naked... and long sleeved clothes, and that baby mickey mouse stuffed animal thing that is THE most adorable thing will ever see in your life! I might need to get a hairdryer too. We'll see!